Anal Sex For Beginners

Nov 30th 2025

Anal Sex For Beginners

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Anal Sex For Beginners

Vaginal sex feels good; oral sex feels great...but what about anal? Is it worth a try? It's definitely worth it. More than that, it can truly give you the best, most powerful orgasms you've ever had. Explore this guide to learn what makes anal sex so fantastic, bust the myths surrounding this topic, and take the very first steps into the world of enormous backdoor pleasure.

Why Does Anal Sex Feel So Good?

Teasing Sensitive Nerve Endings

Where there are nerve endings, there is sensitivity. Where there is sensitivity, there is also incredible bliss. Every bumhole is jam-packed with sensitive nerve endings, interconnected with other erogenous zones, like the clitoris/penis - that's why sometimes even few minutes of anal stimulation is enough to find yourself in a pre-orgasmic state.

The Freshness Of Sensations

What can be sexier and more arousing than experiencing a "first" with someone you trust? There is no better way to spice things up in the bedroom then discovering the world of anal bliss with your partner.

For communicating couples anal sex is always a source of pleasure, and never a disappointment.

Double indulgence

How Should You Introduce Anal Sex To Your Partner?

There are many inhibitions regarding anal sex, and most of them stem from ignorance. The truth is that anal sex can be just as safe and pleasurable as any other form of lovemaking. For those who've never tried it, it can be intimidating - but so is almost anything else you do for the first time. Men get even more pressure from society when it comes to anal pleasure. Though the myth that anal is not a "manly" practice is still around, in reality, when it comes to sex, there are no reasons why a man should deprive himself of pleasure.

If you want to introduce anal into your lovemaking routine, be sure to get as many answers as you can before you have "the talk" with your partner. Remember that surprises are an absolute no-no in the realm of backdoor explorations. To make sure you are on the same page, discuss your expectations - what toys you are going to use, how deeply you want to go, and how fast you want it to be.

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It's perfectly normal to feel awkward about sexual topics. Introduce the idea gradually and take it easy.

Anal Sex Tips For Women

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Fact

94 % of women

who enjoy anal sex reached an orgasm during their last intercourse

Source: National Survey Of Sexual Health And Behavior

Busting The 5 Common Myths About Anal Sex

Anal Sex Is Not Painful

Anal sex is like any other sexual act: it only hurts if you're doing it wrong. Always be gentle with your partner, and remember to keep the lines of communication open. Pay attention to their physical and verbal cues, and you will both have a great experience.

Anal Sex Cannot Lead To Incontinence

Anal sex has no connection with this unpleasant health problem at all. The sphincter muscle easily stretches and contracts back to the same size, just like any other muscle.

The Golden Rules Of Anal Sex

Stay Protected

Don't interchangeably use the same object for anal and vaginal stimulation without cleaning it first or putting a new condom on it.

Communicate

The time is always right to add more lube, to change pace, to switch to a more enjoyable position, or to stop. Never stay silent if something feels off.

Vary Positions

Positions and angles can and should vary. With every new angle come new sensations. Want some inspiration? Here's a handy guide on anal sex positions that might give you an idea or two.

Give And Receive

Relax and enjoy. If anything feels wrong or uncomfortable, speak up! Don't hesitate to give your partner feedback and instructions on how to increase your pleasure.

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