Nov 30th 2025
Guide To Double Penetration
Double Penetration Techniques I Use With My Wife For 2X Fun
Do you ever have trouble deciding which of those sweet holes deserves to get a pleasant little poke today? With double penetration - a.k.a. “DP” - you don't have to choose! If you’re ready to double your orgasmic pleasure potential, read on for expert advice and recommendations. I’ll let you know firsthand which sex toys deliver the maximum double excitement, detail the most satisfying tried-and-tested DP sex positions, and share tips on how to savor DP in all its sweetest combinations.
What Kinds of Double Penetration (DP) Are We Talking About?
The definition of DP we're talking about here involves the simultaneous penetration of a woman's vagina and anus. While it's not only possible but pleasurable for women to achieve DP in a solo session, we're going to focus on partner interaction. The most obvious solution - an MMF (male-male-female) threesome - is certainly one answer, but it's not without its problems.
Finding a third person isn't always easy, plus, many couples prefer not to introduce that dynamic into their relationships. So, how can couples still enjoy the orgasmic pleasures of DP without the physical and emotional risks of involving a third party? The answer is toys - creative, fun, orgasm-inducing toys!
DP 101 - How to Get Started - The Easy Way
Next Steps - Boosting The Pleasure Curve
Not So Fast Cowboy - Listen To Your Partner
(Or tell him what works - he’s not a mind reader.) Sometimes I get a bit over-excited in seeing how my lover responds to all of the attention. When that happens, I tend to move both the dildo and fingers vigorously. Although that’s fine some of the time, often she’ll ask me to move just one-at-a-time.
Alternating vaginal thrusting with anal thrusting allows her to focus on one sensation at a time - which brings me to the obvious point - COMMUNICATION is vital. To some extent, she needs to guide you, and it will be different almost every day.
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Just be aware that what she wants in one sex session can be entirely different from what she desires the next time. So you need to be ready to mix things up at a moment’s notice, and your partner needs to keep you posted on what’s working NOW!
Double Penetration Without A Penis
Even after several months of fun, frolic, orgasms, and G-spot gushing, there's still room in your sexual repertoire to grow. Even if full-on anal sex still isn't on the table, there's no need to worry when there are toys to the rescue! Start with a couple of dildos, lube them up, and let the experimentation begin!
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Time to go DP!
Once your partner has adapted to the anal penetration - it’s time to go DP!
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Double Penetration With A Penis & Dildo
Based on your experiences getting to this point, you should have a good idea of what size dildo to use as your second penetrator. If you're truly ready to get this DP party started, you have some options to consider.
Will the anal penetration be penile or with a dildo? She might prefer a smaller dildo for the backdoor entry, while you give this double-penetration cock ring a go in her pussy. Combined with a petite shaft for anal entry and vibrating clit attachment, it guarantees bursting climaxes and a next-level pleasurable experience for your partner.
Some women have the flexibility to operate a dildo vaginally; others do not. That means you may have to get a little creative, and for that, there's no better tool than a harness. Believe me, we know!
Our Most Favorite Sex Positions For Double Penetration
Since the permutations for DP are almost unlimited, here's just a brief description of some of the things we enjoy.
Double penetration In Missionary Sex Position
For us, the most common DP position is a Missionary. After some loving anal preparation, I slip in a silicone dildo in her vagina while simultaneously penetrating her anally with my cock. In this position, my pubic bone nudges the top of the dildo against her A-spot and the base against her clit. If you want to provide some extra clit stimulation, you can try putting a vibrating cock ring on the dildo.
Extra intense tickler ring
Double penetration In Cowgirl Sex Position
With her on top riding Cowgirl, she lodges my penis inside her vagina, and after she's comfy, I slip the dildo in her bumhole. In this position, my wife typically grinds her clit against me while enjoying deep stimulation from her two penetrators. She has control over speed and rhythm, and those are the keys to success here. For girls who like to be in charge, this is definitely the way to go.
Double penetration In Doggie Style Sex Position
When we go Doggie Style, we opt for penis-in-vagina and an anal dildo. It's a fantastic combination because it allows her to use her favorite clit wand to bring on a great big finish!
Double Penetration Enhanced With Sex Furniture
Purpose-built sex furniture can help you enjoy DP in some truly incredible positions and crazy angles - and still feeling super comfortable at the same time. Which pieces of sex furniture you select will be a matter of personal taste, but we recommend a position pillow as the first item to try out. Position pillows provide your lover with sturdy support while allowing you to more precisely thrust your penis in the direction of her hot spots.
Turnabout Is Fair Play
I tend to be a nerd (engineer type), but I know my wife appreciates the attention to detail and nuance. Remember that anal sex and DP are not a good place for Neanderthal thrusting.
Girls, by all means, tell your partner what’s working or not. He may be a rocket scientist, but he’s not a mind reader!
I suggest that every man should experience anal penetration similar in size to what his partner will experience. Understanding what’s going on back there can give him an appreciation for both the challenges and joys of anal penetration. Share your experiences below and go to the Eden Fantasys Forum and communicate with other contributors on the tips and tricks they use to create a 2x the fun!
